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Scarcity Is the Root of All Evil
I don’t believe that “the love of money is the root of all evil.” Instead, my experience has been that scarcity is the root of all evil. For starters, I’m not sure that the “good” and “evil” labels are very helpful in being successful and happy. My thinking is that people are either behaving in such a way that they’re creating more happiness or less happiness in the world. People share what they have. Happy people spread happiness, and unhappy people spread unhappiness.

Terry Dockery
4 days ago2 min read
Control Freaks, Minority Partners, and Team Members
I help leaders decide who to add to their teams. We begin by creating an ideal profile of success for the role, and then we match against the profile as we assess candidates. One of the predictors we consider is risk tolerance—yes, just like in financial investment strategy. Overall, we look at three different levels of risk tolerance: CONTROL FREAKS: If you look in the dictionary under “control freak” you’ll see a picture of me. 😊 I know what I want and have a pretty go

Terry Dockery
Dec 4, 20252 min read


Gratitude Saves Lives
It’s true. I’ve sometimes heard it said that I’m almost always happy and positive, but this isn’t my natural state. Because of my early experiences I’m a natural pessimist who was programmed to wait for the other painful shoe to drop. My life script originally was written as an epic tragedy. Instead, to paraphrase Jimmy Buffett, some of it’s tragic, but most of it’s magic, and I’ve had a good life all the way. How? As I said in my book, it mostly depends on what movie you

Terry Dockery
Nov 26, 20252 min read


Are People Born Evil?
Nope. Nor are they intrinsically good. People are just people. They just want to feel good more often than they feel bad, i.e., be happy, so they’re going to maximize their happiness within the options provided by the environment they’re in. As a business leader, why do you care? Because as Peter Drucker purportedly said, “Culture eats strategy for breakfast.” This is great news, because this means that you can create and enforce core values (how we do things around here) a

Terry Dockery
Nov 20, 20252 min read


The One Page Strategic Plan
In the grand scheme of things, simpler is better. For example, in strategic planning increased complexity in a plan results in more opportunities for miscommunication and “pilot error” in implementing the plan. The main reason for this is that we humans can only hold around seven pieces of information in our minds at any one time. Sure, there may be a great deal of complexity in the calculations that underpin your strategic plan, but at the end of the day humans will be in

Terry Dockery
Nov 13, 20251 min read


Good Leaders Don't Call People Names
This is a no brainer, right? And yet one of the most powerful people in the world is famous for mocking others and calling them pejorative names. Sounds like something a small child would do, doesn’t it? Have you ever wondered why a powerful leader would stoop to such tactics? Top leaders have a monopoly on power in the organizations they lead. Since they are the final arbiter of rewards and success in the organization, the behavior that they reward increases, and the behav

Terry Dockery
Nov 5, 20252 min read


50/50 Partnerships Destroy Relationships
Okay, not every time, but more times than not. Here are the typical steps: 1. Two good friends get an idea for a fun and exciting business 2. They like and trust each other, so they create a 50/50 partnership because neither wants to act like the “boss” of the other 3. Then they realize they must agree on EVERY decision made for the business 4. Since no two people in the world agree on EVERYTHING, they begin to experience many conflicts and arguments 5. The b

Terry Dockery
Oct 31, 20252 min read


Love Equals Sustained Profitability
I can see the men rolling their eyes already. We males are socialized to think that being tough, analytical, and detaching from our emotions are the greatest superpowers, but they aren’t. There’s plenty of research to show that consideration, or caring about your followers’ happiness, is by far the best predictor of success as a leader. Some other words for consideration are love, approval, and nurturing. Most women are socialized to be better at nurturing than we men, and

Terry Dockery
Oct 24, 20252 min read


Should You Hire People You Don't Like?
Strange question, right? And yet there are a lot of hiring pundits out there who’ll tell you not to give in to your emotional “biases” about hiring someone. They encourage you to remain focused on technical skills and detached from your emotions as you evaluate a potential new hire. Sure, we all have emotional biases that don’t serve us well all the time. As Denzel Washington says, some people can “angry up your demons.” Well, that’s a therapeutic issue that runs deep, is

Terry Dockery
Oct 16, 20252 min read


Is Honesty Good in Business?
As host Rod Serling might have said in his introduction to the old science fiction/thriller TV show The Twilight Zone : “Imagine a world...

Terry Dockery
Oct 10, 20252 min read


Leadership, Aggression, and Violence
When you’re the leader of anything you have a great deal of power to influence and even control the behavior of others. It’s like being a...

Terry Dockery
Oct 2, 20252 min read


Use the Chain of Command
Okay, okay, I’m aware that having “flat” organizations is all the rage these days. A while back the matrix organizational structure was...

Terry Dockery
Sep 25, 20252 min read


Your Strategic Dashboard
Very often the leadership teams I work with are suffering from “data overload.” They have so many detailed numbers that they lose track...

Terry Dockery
Sep 18, 20251 min read


Financial Psychology with Dr. Jenn Serlin
Your relationship with money is one of the 4 major sources of happiness. Dr. Jenn Serlin tells us how to make it "true love" through...

Terry Dockery
Sep 16, 20251 min read


Organization vs. Focus
In my interactions with clients and colleagues I often am privy to conversations about organization and time management. Leaders often...

Terry Dockery
Sep 12, 20252 min read


Escaping the Prison of Unrealistic Fears
I’ve always been fascinated by why people do what they do. When I see leaders do things that clearly aren’t in their best interests, I...

Terry Dockery
Sep 4, 20252 min read


An Individual Performance Management Template
If you manage people, then treat them like partners in the business whether they own equity or not. An energized and engaged team member...

Terry Dockery
Aug 29, 20251 min read


Can People Change?
Recently I had a rousing debate with my brother about whether people can change or not. His position basically was that they can’t change...

Terry Dockery
Aug 21, 20252 min read


Entrepreneurs Tend to Suck at Delegation
Yep, unfortunately it’s true, entrepreneurs tend to struggle with delegation. If we were creating a profile of the average entrepreneur...

Terry Dockery
Aug 15, 20251 min read


Feed Your Eagles
Derek Newton’s book Feed Your Eagles, about how to create a high-performing sales team, had a profound effect on my thinking many years...

Terry Dockery
Aug 5, 20252 min read
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